Masks to Mastery

Authentic Living for Men

Happiness Is Easy. Be Authentic.

Most men walk around with masks. In a world filled with expectations from others and insecurities of our own, we all want to be seen as strong, successful, happy, calm, popular and more. And so we put on masks, sometimes without intending to. What we do not realise is that this façade creates pressure within us that increases with time and, when it gets too much to bear, leads to breakdowns, illness, mental health issues and failed relationships.
As a transformation coach, I guide men towards mastery – taking control of their lives. My coaching helps them shed their masks, discover their true selves and transform their mindset so that they can live happily, authentically and to their fullest potential.

Which mask are you wearing?

The Perfection Mask

In order to be accepted many men try to be the perfect son, husband, father or friend. They create and maintain a façade of being loving, obedient, supportive and successful regardless of their true feelings.

The Strong Mask

Conditioning and culture push men to provide for their families and communities. At the same time men are discouraged from vocalising their fears and insecurities. The result is a mask of strength that almost every man puts on.

The Fraud Mask

The fraud mask is worn to fit in. Many men hide their identity, sexual orientation, interests, relationships or behavioural patterns which they believe will not align with the expected norms of society.

The Jovial Mask

It is common to use humour to deflect attention from one’s true feelings or to avoid confronting truths. This mask, while making one more likeable, prevents genuine emotions from being expressed.

Masks cause grave damage to both physical health and mental wellbeing. Physical ailments from ulcers to cancer, stress, emotional exhaustion, depression, burnouts, breakdown in relationships and suicide can often be traced to masks that were worn for too long.

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Shedding the masks you’ve held for years needs the right tools and guidance. To this end, Capt. Suraj offers one-on-one coaching, group workshops and corporate programs to cater to different men with different needs.


MPower

MPower is a comprehensive one-on-one coaching program that empowers you to lead an authentic life. Spread across 12 sessions, the program covers 4 modules – Condition, Control, Cleanse and Change. Capt Suraj will guide and support you on a journey of self-discovery, which will enable you to understand yourself, heal, take control of your life and change your mindset so that you can live a truly purposeful life.

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Burnout to Balance

The pressure on men to be the primary provider along with societal norms that discourage them from discussing their problems and seeking help results in burnouts en masse among adult men. Burnout to Balance is a corporate program that encourages men who are facing or veering towards burnout to revaluate their priorities, acknowledge their limits and take meaningful steps towards a fulfilling and balanced life.

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Mid-Life Awakening

Mid-life crisis typically occurs in men between 31 and 40 when they realise that the life they are living with all their achievements and accolades feels empty and devoid of purpose. Mid-Life Awakening is a workshop that helps middle-aged men introspect, understand their feelings, discover their true identity and embrace an authentic life, thereby averting or snapping out of their mid-life crisis.

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How Mastery Can Change Your Life

When we drop our masks, we are finally able to attain control of our lives, or mastery, in a whole lot of ways:

Mastery of Career

Dropping our masks frees us from societal expectations. We can choose professions that resonate with our passions. The result is more drive, a sense of purpose, job satisfaction and better chances of success.

Mastery of Self

Shedding our masks forces us to confront our fears and insecurities, leading to a deeper understanding of ourselves. This self-awareness helps us grow, navigate life's challenges and live with intention.

Mastery of Relationships​

Without masks we show our true vulnerable selves. This leads to genuine communication and intimacy in relationships. What follows is healthier, more fulfilling relationships built on mutual respect and understanding.

Mastery of Finances​

Authenticity ensures we make decisions that align with who we are and what we truly seek instead of succumbing to societal pressures or immediate gratifications. This leads to better financial choices made with clarity and intention.

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